Embarrassing Mom Moment

Hello everyone, happy Thursday. I know, I know you guys are probably saying what three blog post in one week. Must be your guys lucky week or that I really am starting to take this blogging serious. My goal is to make blogging my full time job and to sell Pruvit has my second big full time job.

When I’m blogging, it doesn’t feel like work and I enjoy writing about whatever comes to my mind or to share my fitness journey or my mom life. Plus love taking pictures for my blog. It’s like the job, you love to come to work everyday and basically talk about whatever is in your mind and on your heart. Plus it helps when you are your own boss.

So grab your drinks and let’s dive in.

Today, I’m going to share a funny embarrassing moment that happened to me because on this rainy day I need something to laugh about and laughing at myself will definitely help.

Before I had my baby girl, I always laughed at my mom for constantly had to go to the bathroom and have to cross her leg to sneeze and cough. Well after having my daughter, I would like to apologize to my mom because no matter what how many kegels or exercise to help with the problem, I still have it.

When I get the urge to go to the bathroom, I can’t wait I have to go and go right now before I peed myself.

I think by now you are definitely getting an idea about my embarrassing funny mom moment.

My mom met me at the mall with my daughter, we went and had supper at East Side Mario’s. I decided to take my daughter through the mall to tucker her out. At this time my mom left to go home and my daughter and I are off to go the arcade to play some games.

I’m sure a lot of moms who are reading this are going oh no, the arcade. The arcade is amazing but once you are there good luck trying to get your kids out. Lol

After a couple of minutes, I got that feeling that I need to go to the bathroom and I need to go now. Well my two year old daughter was not having it. She decided to run away from me every time I got close to her and I was starting to get frustrated and the urgency to go to the bathroom was increasing.

Well when I finally got to Athena, I bend down to pick up the screaming toddler who was acting like she was about to get murdered and when I stood up that when it happened my bladder let go. You heard me, I literally peed myself in the arcade at the mall holding a screaming toddler acting like she was getting murdered.

My only saving grace was that I was wearing black leggings, so you couldn’t tell that I peed myself. Oh how embarrassing I was at the time. Face bright red, toddler still throwing a tantrum and wet pants lol. Fun times for all.

But looking back at this moment, I now just laugh at the memory, don’t get embarrassed about it and my toddler is still alive and I’m still taking this parenting hood one step at time and to not let this parenting job get you stressed or down because toddlers just know what button to press but look cute while doing it.

Well that it for now. I hope you all had a good laugh on this Thursday evening.

With Love,

Chelsey

The Mom Guilt

Hello everyone, happy Monday. New week, which means time to start this week on the right foot and of course seize it. Grab your coffee or ketones and let’s dive into this blog post.

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So if you are a mom, how many of you felt the mom guilt? Me, this person, literally every day. I’m just now starting to deal with it and let me say it, I’m still working on it on every single day.

So what is the Mom Guilt? Basically, it where the feeling of doubt, anxiousness or uncertainty experienced by mothers when we are constantly thinking we are failing as a mother. If you shake your head up and down and scream, yes I have that. Believe me, you are not alone. I experience this every day.

I experience mom guilt when I drop my daughter off at daycare so I can go to work. I experience mom guilt when I work long days and my mom goes pick up Athena from daycare, and time I get off work, it’s basically bedtime. I experience mom guilt when I go to the gym or have me time for an hour or when I do my makeup or when I don’t spend every waking day with my daughter.

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It’s like this pressure where you have to try to be the perfect mom and I’m just letting you know in your kid’s eye you are already the perfect mom. We are all perfect mom, in our own ways and we really have to stop and look at other mom who has their shits together and their kids are perfect and smart and hitting every single milestone and the mom have supper done every day and lunches pack and always got their shits together. Because of 100% behind the closed door, they probably don’t have their shits together and looking at you like you have your shit together and wish they were like you.

Us, mom really have to stop judging other moms and start building each other up and stop comparing each other, because we all have a different style of parenting and what works for me, might not work for another mom. We are all doing this parenting shit 1 day at a time. But I’m getting off on the wrong topic, that will be for another post.

The one thing we all have to stop is the mom guilt. Because mom you are not failing as a mother. You are an amazing mom. This is what I say to myself, every time, I get that mom guilt coming on, you are amazing mom. I then say, does Athena have a roof over her head, does she have food in the house, does she has lights and heat, does she have an amazing mom who absolutely loves her, then Chelsey you are amazing mom and you are definitely not failing has a mom.

What I’m trying to say, you are all amazing mom, and through your kid’s eye you are the best mom in the whole wide world and they are very lucky to have you has their mom. We are all trying to get through this parenting 1 step at a time without losing our minds.

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Well, that’s it for this post. Leave a comment, if you experience the mom guilt and how you deal with it. Share and like if you love this post. I hope this helps you deal with the mom guilt.

See you all next Monday.

love,

Chelsey